What Is Your PDA Policy? - MSN Relationships - article

Actually, beyond simple hand holding, pecks on the cheek or at the most shoulder or waist touching, signaling affection BUT NOT sexuality, I am uncomfortable with any public display of affection, heterosexual or homosexual. So that is where I draw the line. It is simply discourteous, rude and selfish to intrude on other peoples days with public displays of sexual undertones. I would make an exception, though, at a ship yard or airport where people, like soldiers, and their families, etc, are seeing each other for the first time in weeks, months, or even years. That would be a public place where extended liplocking, etc., would be expected, so the average person would be mentally prepared for the spectacle.

The phrase "get a room" was created for a reason. Many people want to share their love/attraction for their partner with everyone and frankly we don't want to see it or hear it. A light kiss, hand holding, hug, etc is ok, but really people the suck your partners face off kiss, groping and borderline sex I am not interested in. If I want to watch a porno I'll go home and see more attractive people doing it.

That said there have been a few times in the past when discrete, but risky sex or exhibitionism was fun. Many of my girlfriends have gone naked under their coats out in public with me, I have had sex in many places in public (in the car, in the woods, etc.), but not been seen by others. The problem is there are so many wierd people that if you are caught your GF could be raped and you both could be killed. So bottomline is I have moved in doors which many of you will applaude and I encourage others to do the same.